What Is Your Dominant Desire Based On What You See?

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LOVE

You are ruled by your desire to be connected to others. Whether it is a romantic connection you seek, or the deep abiding intimacy of family or friendship, it is what fuels you and keeps you motivated. You have a warm and compassionate soul and a nurturing spirit which draws others to you. You see people for everything that they can be and all the wonder that they contain within them; and this drives you to connect to them. It is no doubt that no matter where life's journey takes you, you will always be surrounded by those who care for you and a bountiful love which encompasses you.

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Being Too Nice Might Be Making You Depressed

Depression is a strange phenomena.  If you have ever been depressed or have been close to a loved one who suffered from it, then you know that it crops up in the most likely and unlikely of places, and seems to drag the life out of you like a plague of the mind.  And while it’s easy to hide your depression, there are a few things you can start doing right now that may have a positive effect on the way you view life at the moment.

It starts with how nice you are to people.  Yes, it’s generally always a good idea to be nice to people, because why not?  But there is such a notion as being way too nice, too caring and too “understanding.”  Many people, including myself, tend to have a need to gain people’s approval, which is a large obstacle in overcoming depression.

Thinking that your opinion is worthless, that your thoughts don’t matter, and that you bring nothing to the table are all things that can lead you down dark paths in life.  The first thing you can do is stop caring about what anyone else thinks.  The only person that’s ultimately going to change your life is you, and because of this, there is only one person you need to please, only one person you need to care about, and only one person whose opinion actually matters, and that person is you.

There is a balance to be had in everything in life, and how we interact with one another is no different.  If you care too much, someone will care too little. If you are too available, others will always be too preoccupied.  You’ll always be waiting for people, feeling like your time is less valuable than theirs.

Never let toxic people fill your life.  Being alone is more than okay, and no one should have to suffer for companionship.  Give yourself the time and leniency that life demands of you.  Figuring out who you are and what you want out of life is what you should be focused on, always be chasing after your needs and wants.  Be good for you, and others will follow suit.

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